Sunday, March 17, 2024

Reading: (Twin pack) (1) The Dot (2) Ish

Another set of "twin" books - both stories are linked though similar yet different. 


From "the dot" - it reminds us the feedback we give matters... but it definitely does though may not always. On the other hand, it depends who gives the feedback. For the young ones, the significant ones those whom they spend most time with, not just parents, but also their teachers. The acknowledgement, the criticism from any of these significant ones matters a lot to them. It frames their mental models of things, even their own self-worth.

Through this heartwarming story, the teacher's creative response sent an encouraging push towards developing greater confidence because her acknowledgement changes his negative self-perception. 

The positive push encourages him to hone his skills and perspective, and creativity! More importantly, he learnt (through his teacher) and applied (his experience) to others who needed that magically tweak to their perspective. 

In "Ish", it illustrates how, a small discouraging remark or criticism could be detrimental, and even destroy. However, it also reminds one not to be too tunnel vision and think it's the end! Look around... while most people may not appreciate or agree...  look out for the one (among many) who may share the same view and appreciate what one does. Well, if you think what's seemingly of no value is appreciated by someone, would you want to give up? 

... food for thought....